What do men look for in a woman? A good look is probably the first one but other than the appearance, some guys do like girls with certain qualities to reel him in. Just to make it clear, real men are totally different from boys. Real men are mature enough to face the challenges of life. They know exactly what they want and are serious about pursuing them. While compare to the boys, they are not yet ready for any commitments and still enjoying the “easy go lucky” life.